Being someone who feels energy too intensely sometimes, it’s easy for me to feel when other people’s energy centres are out of balance. If you spend time connecting with your own energy centres and balancing them regularly, you’ll be even more sensitive to when other’s don’t have an energetic self-care routine in place for themselves.
Sometimes over or under active centres go unnoticed even for those people who are aware of the subtle flow of energy within them. This happens when we are unconscious of certain shadow or hidden aspects of self influencing the natural flow of energy moving within the body from the crown chakra down to the base of our spine and back up.
Aspects of self that have yet to be revealed to us will pool energetically or deplete their corresponding energy centres and begin to manifest in our lives as situations, people, feelings and physical aliments to reveal themselves to us, make themselves conscious, so we can become more self-aware, grow and evolve.
If we carry any major traumas within specific centres, we’ll be more predisposed to feeling others corresponding energy centres, especially when they’re out of alignment. So for example, because I have trauma in my second chakra, related both to a loss of identity as a child and sexual abuse, I will be more attuned to other’s overactive or underactive second chakra energy. I can simply feel a person’s sexual energy without looking at them or observing their behaviour. In the community when someone has an over active second chakra we call this a leaky second chakra.
If someone has much suppressed sexual energy that pools in their second charka, trapped there and no longer able to flow freely back up or down they’ll leak sexual energy and others will feel this energy emanating from them at a distance, even if they themselves can’t feel it.
Often this will happen if they are in an unhealthy relationship to their sexuality, sexually under stimulated, carry repressed sexual energy due to abuse or feelings of shame about their sexuality. Same goes for over stimulation, possibly participating in too many sexual activities that they’re not fully consenting to on a heart level or feel completely safe in doing, consciously or subconsciously.
You can have someone in front of you who talks very conservatively about sex yet they’re leaking sexual energy in large quantities which they can be oblivious to, yet felt deeply by those around them. This excess or repressed sexual energy can become a threat to certain people who have a sensitivity to that area or a threat to their sense of security within a relationship or friendship.
You might feel jealously for your partner towards someone who has a leaky second chakra that is affecting your partner on a conscious or subconscious level. It is easy to feel this energy as a threat from another, even if they aren’t actively pursuing your partner or making blatant advances.
In tantra we learn to observe the flow of sexual life force within the body and distinguish between the various types of vibrations in which vital energy can be shared with others. Sharing our vital energy sensually does not emanate a sexual vibration. We can learn more about the different arrays of sexual energy we emanate through studying our sexual history and exploring the shadow aspects of our sexuality.
Learning how to distinguish between the various types of sexual energy we emanate will free us from unintentionally disrupting the people around us or manifesting the wrong people and scenarios. We can feel a difference between a grasping, dominating sexual energy to a loving erotic sexual energy or a repressed dark sexual energy filled with fear and shame to a heart based sexual energy. If we are not aware of the type of sexual energy we are offering others we can not chose what experiences we would like to have in our lives.
In today’s western society we are aware that we are lacking basic touch, as a therapist that works directly with people’s bodies and energy, I can sense when someone is in need of this fundamental human healing touch, which does not feel like sexual energy in the least, it feels like a very natural opening to an exchange of vital energy, which can be very healthy and healing.
Firstly, taking the time to connect with our vital energy is so important, it fuels our creativity and revitalizes our being on an emotional, mental, physical and soul level. Learning how to move the energy around in our bodies is key to longevity and personal expansion and then learning to manage our vital energy so we are manifesting situations in our lives that are aligned with our visions and heart’s desires the final key to fruitful experiences.
I highly recommend exploring your shadow aspects of sexuality in a safe environment to learn to recognize your hidden sexual energy effectively so as to own your sexual forces rather than have it own you and create havoc in your life.
One love,
J
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Amazing. This helps alot.